I don't know what it's like to have actual women like me. I've only received at most pity comfort from women, for a brief moment. So, I don't know if it's even "dystopic". It's exactly what I expect to be the only thing I'll ever know, a pretty woman who doesn't know I exist that I would jerk off too. And after a while, it is more comfortable to just watch, rather than show myself and reveal what a failure I am. Believing it to be dystopic implies that realistically every man should be able to find affection from sexual intimacy / approval from women, but that's always been a fiction.
I can think of many things in this world that really are dystopian and utterly nightmarish, and some of them are just accepted as perfectly normal for a liberal democracy. For example, when you have a news anchor gleefully praise sending missiles to kill randos at a Syrian air base in a blatant war crime, because your country has been seized by a death cult that wanted to initiate a new President by inflicting some senseless death that had no political purpose beyond the display of killing randos to prove you're in the death cult. This, our news media announced, made Trump "presidential". That Trump would do such a thing is not surprising. That the liberal media believes this display of death cult insanity that served no purpose is somehow "presidential", and that the press didn't even seem to care and went back to saying Trump was a poopyhead, is the real horrifying thing. That senseless death for the sake of the death cult ultimately changed nothing, but this is what we are told makes leaders great. It's the perfect slice of why America is a goddamn shithole and the world is Hell for having America do this shit.